AsktheBuilder.com News - April 3, 2022
Issue #1176 (I think...)
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Are you a new subscriber? If so, what a treat for your first issue.
There's a good chance this is the most unique newsletter I've ever penned in the 25+ years of producing them. It's one that I'll print out and frame for my office/man cave.
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"If you want to see where you're going, it's easy. Turn around and see where you've been.
HISTORY IS A MIRROR-IMAGE ROAD MAP."
Have you ever had an epiphany or a real vision?
I've had several in the past twenty-nine years.
Several months after my dad was sent back to Heaven, I stopped by my childhood home and had lunch with my mom. She had smoked cigarettes for my entire life.
I wasn't looking forward to sitting in the small kitchen trying to avoid the clouds of second-hand smoke that hung in the air like laundry on a line.
The lunch I had brought was a favorite treat of hers - carryout Skyline Chili. I liked it too as I had worked there ever since freshman year of high school and had recently quit because of the fabled Mint Incident. That's a story for another day.
I had become so programmed to her smoking I didn't think about it. Halfway through lunch all of a sudden I realized there was no smoke haze hovering over my head.
"Mom, what's going on? You're not smoking."
"Oh, when I got home from church one morning last week I threw all of my packs of cigarettes in the trash. At mass that morning I saw a vision in church that told me to STOP SMOKING."
Without hesitation, she then proceeded to take another bite of her cheese coney. She loved the mustard on them, I detested it and always made my cheese coneys with no mustard and heavy onion.
A Vision? Are You Serious?
I was in my mid-twenties when this happened. I thought I had life figured out and had more testosterone in me than a supertanker filled with Brent Crude.
I was much more brash than I am now. You may find that hard to believe.
One thing's for sure, I sure thought that all those past stories in grade-school religion class about people having visions was pure poppycock.
But since it was my mom and she was still suffering from the loss of her soulmate, I didn't mock her reason for giving up smoking. Let me tell you, it was wonderful to eat and not gag.